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Spotlight: Pride Month: Beyond Visibility – Supporting LGBTQ+ Survivors of Domestic Abuse

Pride Month is a time to celebrate identity, visibility, and community. It is also an opportunity to reflect on the challenges still faced by many LGBTQ+ people, including domestic abuse, and the importance of ensuring support is truly inclusive.

At GDASS, we know that while awareness is improving, LGBTQ+ survivors can face additional barriers when seeking help. This Pride Month, we are focusing on what can get in the way and what we can do differently.

What Makes LGBTQ+ Experiences Different?

Domestic abuse is about power and control, but LGBTQ+ survivors may face added challenges, such as:

  • Fear of discrimination or not being believed
  • Concerns about being ‘outed’
  • Previous negative experiences with services
  • Lack of representation in support systems

For some, these barriers can make it harder to recognise abuse or feel able to reach out.

When Identity Is Used as Control

Abusers may exploit someone’s identity to maintain control. This can include:

  • Threats to ‘out’ someone
  • Misgendering or denying identity
  • Isolating individuals from LGBTQ+ communities
  • Using stigma to undermine confidence
  • Controlling access to gender-affirming items or support

These tactics can be especially isolating, affecting both safety and sense of self.

A Hidden Barrier: Recognising Abuse

Some LGBTQ+ survivors may not initially identify their experiences as abuse. This can be due to:

  • Limited inclusive messaging about domestic abuse
  • Beliefs that abuse does not occur in LGBTQ+ relationships
  • Minimising non-physical harm
  • Fear of reinforcing stereotypes

This can delay someone from seeking support.

The Role of Professionals

Small changes can make a big difference in helping people feel safe to disclose:

  • Use inclusive language and avoid assumptions
  • Respect confidentiality, especially around identity
  • Listen without judgement and believe disclosures
  • Recognise identity-based forms of control

Creating a safe and respectful space is key.

How GDASS Can Help

GDASS provides inclusive, trauma-informed support to all individuals affected by domestic abuse. We offer:

  • Confidential, non-judgemental support
  • Personalised safety planning
  • Practical guidance
  • Advice and support for professionals

Pride Means Safety Too

Pride is about visibility, dignity, and the right to live safely. This Pride Month, we reaffirm the importance of inclusive services and informed professionals, because everyone deserves to feel safe in who they are and in their relationships.

 

Sector News

Government review of the Domestic Abuse Act highlights ongoing gaps

A recent government review marking five years since the Domestic Abuse Act 2021 found important progress, including stronger recognition of coercive and controlling behaviour and children as victims in their own right. However, it also highlighted ongoing challenges, particularly around consistent implementation and ensuring victims receive effective protection across services. Read more here.

Local: Research launched into teenage relationship abuse

New research funding in Gloucestershire will explore the scale and nature of abuse in relationships involving under-16s. The project aims to address a significant gap in understanding, as this age group is not fully recognised within current domestic abuse definitions, limiting both data collection and tailored support for young people. Read more here.

Government announces new measures to tackle FGM

The government has announced new measures to strengthen the prevention and prosecution of female genital mutilation, including improved reporting processes, better multi-agency working, and enhanced training for professionals. The changes aim to improve early intervention and better protect women and girls at risk. Read more here.
 

Research and Resources

Centre for Women’s Justice report on criminalisation of survivors

A new report from the Centre for Women’s Justice highlights concerning evidence that some victim-survivors are being wrongly criminalised. The findings point to a lack of understanding of domestic abuse and coercive control within policing and prosecution, leading to inappropriate responses and reduced trust in the justice system. Read the findings here.

Domestic Abuse Commissioner – Victims’ Code consultation response

The Domestic Abuse Commissioner’s recent consultation response on the Victims’ Code sets out key recommendations to strengthen victims’ rights and experiences within the justice system. It emphasises the need for clearer entitlements, improved communication, and more consistent support for victims navigating criminal proceedings. Read more here.
 

The Gloucestershire Domestic Abuse Training Pathway

In addition, specialist training for health professionals is available and can be booked via Eventbrite or by emailing gdasshealthteam@gdass.org.uk.